Do you feel sad when someone you know remarks on your behavior – the way walk, talk or do a particular thing?
If you answered – YES then I have the solution for you.
You don’t have to live this way. Wherever you go, you are bound to find 2 types of people – one who mingles and helps you and one who don’t miss any opportunity to make you feel less.
Being human we tend to remember the negatives much longer than all the positives. It is saddening. The simple way to not let this bother you is – to avoid those people.
People who are unfriendly, cruel or rude. You don’t need to hang out with them. Your time is precious – don’t waste it listening to jerks who get fun in poking you.
Avoid them and spend your time with people who understands you, loves to be funny with you and uplifts you.
The biggest mistake we do – is tolerate them.
It seems easy. We don’t want to appear uncool by avoiding them. We let them sit on our mind and hurt us even when they had gone. It is bad.
You are doing the right thing when you accept some people and avoid others.
3 Harmful Effects When You Hang Out with Wrong People
- Initially you don’t see the impact people they have on you. 5 years down the line you become one of them. We absorb their qualities. It would be a big blunder when you spend time with people who are losers, unfriendly and nasty. On the flip side, when you surround yourself with best minds, you outgrow yourself and experience awesomeness.
- Bad habits and traits are easy to pass on. Chances are you might adopt the bad habits, rude behavior and negative mindset from them. You won’t understand it now, gradually you will change.
- You start to limit your creativity. There comes an invisible net which hinders in all the great thinking and ventures you could have started. You limit yourself and start a race to the bottom. You start to degrade, not something you want, right.
The best way is to choose the people with whom you spend your time and if you find someone not a good fit, cut them off. Good luck!