As we grow up and face challenges in various phases of life, we need something to stay strong, motivate and guide us in the right direction.
These life lessons helps you to stay focused.
Doesn’t matter how many of them you like, share or remember, it all comes down to action you make based on that. Your life will improve, give you better outcomes and you will be happy.
Let these life lessons ignite your way to freedom, inspiration and success.
You got the power, success and money. You start to think everyone else is below you. There you go, you start to lose your respect from others.
Sure they will come and stay beside you, talk with you and appear friendly. However behind your back, you will be called an ignorant jerk. You don’t want that.
If you are highly skilled, you might want to show some attitude, it is my advise not to do that. Earn more power and praises for yourself by keeping your attitude to self.
There will be people who will act as if they have the best gadgets, huge information and latest style.
They will try their best to make you feel low. You will get annoyed by their presence and they will seek pleasure by your attention.
Such people rent your head, spoils your mood and become a roadblock in your path, career or success. Don’t let them do this.
Your friend circle, party and thinking shouldn’t get hampered by them. Stay ahead of them by ignoring them, cutting them off and having laser focus on your goal.
No one can stop you, just stay determined. I believe in you.
Yes, you did read it right. It happens to the best of us and it takes practice to master the art of staying calm and keeping your attitude in control.
For example, a father and son are having a disagreement. Father shouts to son. Son in response also shouts.
Then father exclaims, “See his attitude” to the mother of the son.
What exactly happened here?
When you are in a scenario, it is easy to raise your voice. When you do that, you appear to have attitude with you. People think you are trying to show yourself correct by raising voice.
In a disagreement, the first person to lose temper always loses the discussion. Try to remain calm and in your best senses.
Attitude is how you behave, how you respond to someone and how much value you give to others.
When you are positive in your attitude, your work will pay off in the long run. People around you will help you, stick with you and contribute to your success.
Have an attitude which helps, gives positive vibes and takes you longer in your ambition. Anything else should be eliminated from your personal behavior.
Honesty is looked down these days. People lie to go ahead, get an advantage or hide some flaws.
There will come time in your life where things would go in unethical manner. Most of the people would ignore it.
You should too (if your life depends on it), otherwise it is awesome to raise your concern and highlight the wrong person/community.
When you do so you will inspire others to do the same. And when many people act against something which is wrong, things change. You will be the fire which had ignited the bright change.
Most of us take jobs and settle down for it. Annual raise, one vacation a year and life going smoothly makes us happy.
And there it is, we have accepted the growth rate for us.
Challenge it, level up your skills and take risks. There will be some setbacks, some sad moments and some learning’s.
In the end you will acquire wealth of knowledge which will translate in exponential growth for you. The only thing stopping is you. Be brave to accept failure and make choices which would make you uncomfortable.
You will get transformed from “talking about successful people” to “being a successful person yourself.”
Yes, you read that right. Mistakes happens to the best of us. What you do when you are confronted?
Do you try to find excuses, run from it or accept it?
There are 3 things you should do after you commit any mistake
- Accept your mistakes and make an apology right away.
- Analyze and try to rectify it, make it your responsibility.
- Learn from it, never repeat it again.
Most of us get involved in our life problems, move on with our responsibility and hardly think about our parents.
The moment we become adults, they need us the most. Because they are growing old. They had showered love, care and money on you for your well-being.
It is easy to shed off the tension(as most people call it), takes courage to stand by, care and support your parents.
How to do that?
Start by fulfilling their dreams they might have sacrificed because of you, stay with them and listen to them.
We hold ourselves back to show kindness. The simplest form of human gesture is often hard to find nowadays.
You are awesome, show care and be kind whenever you can. Don’t let others fool you. Ask questions if someone comes to you for help, validate their reasons and graciously help them.
The more you give, the more content you will get. Do it for better mankind, do it for making world a better place, do it for yourself.
The happiness received from showing care and kindness is above every emotion.
We are constantly asking for more in life, our hunger for success, learning and money never ends.
There lies our big problem.
Instead of living this way, live to achieve your needs and satisfaction. Once you reach that level, be generous and kind for others who might have the similar hunger like you did when you started.
Think of that person as yourself and shower with all the help you can. Imagine someone doing this to you.
Awesome right. Make that person’s day. You will be happy. There is no harm in giving after our needs and it will add up reward points for your humanity. Win-win.
Those who tend to make decisions on impulse regret it later. You don’t do it, instead take a doubtful approach.
For example, you need to make an important decision about buying the home. Don’t just look at some prospects and close the deal.
Instead look for at least 20 to 30 agents and list down top 10 ones with their pros and cons. Ask your spouse or partner in home buying to reject some of them.
Once you have the super curated list, you can now go on the spot to reject based on visits and end up in the best possible option for you. When you doubt yourself, you recheck, re-confirm and make better decisions.
Your life is going to be one with many relationships, some would go on little more than others. Till the time you are in any relation, your main focus should be to deep dive into it.
Talk and make no mis-understanding come in your way.
Most of the love partners broke because of doubt, when in one talk and resolve matter. Because in most cases there is no truth in the way you see things.
Be open to every possibility and take leap of faith, you will be more successful in your relations. Trust matters the most.
You have the preconceived notion of your ability. Thinking you are capable of something often limits us.
Don’t let previous experiences of others, numbers or someone’s advice limit you from trying your best. Give in your 100 percent literally without hoping to come to a numbered result.
For example, if everyone told you, the minimum time you can achieve the 100 m race is 10 seconds, then you will create a mind block for yourself.
Just practice the hardest and give the best shot you can give. That way you will exceed your current potential.
What other life lessons you follow?