Love is an amazing experience and there isn’t anyone stopping you from experiencing it. Just make sure you don’t overdo it and harass someone in the process.
It all happens with most of us that we love something or someone once and later we start to hate them or ignore them. Wondered why it all happens? Let us unravel the mystery for it and cherish the feeling of loved and loving someone.
We all grow and our thoughts get modified, the things which we used to love like cartoons, paper plane might not interest you anymore and your interest will be more diverse now.
The things we experience changes with time and we wish for more enjoyment. So, is it nice. Yes, indeed we need to grow and become more matured along the way. But, we should also remain a kid and enjoy small things.
This way we will be always happy with least expectations in life.
As we grow, we find new friends and sometimes we become a person as per their definition. If they find playing video games silly, then you hide your passion or just completely stop playing.
The peer pressure is very high these days and it leads to many wrong things too. We once loved chocolates, but because of some friends, we get the notion that doing drug is the new cool and we start doing it.
Remember, your friends should accept you the way you are and they should give you nice healthy advice, if they don’t, they its time you to doubt your friends.
Now, talking about persons, we sometimes fell in love with a person and later found that it is not working. It happens with most of us. The thing here is that we often get attracted by the outer look and don’t bother to actually know the person.
As time pass by, we get to know each other and then the real feelings start to develop, so if you don’t like the person like you once did, move on. If you can let the person know that politely and you will feel less heavy.
If that person is you, trust me many people got rejected because a greater opportunity was waiting for them. So have a positive attitude and move on.
There are many things that we love because we have no choice, lets say if you parents only bought you mario game and nothing else. Than out of disparity you might start loving it as you are not aware of many other options.
So, when you got to learn about other things, then there are chances you might not love mario like you once did. This is fine for objects.
But, if you love a person and you are in relationship, then you should be loyal. Because there will be millions of more better person than your soul partner, but since you have committed stay together as long as he/she stays the same.
Remember love is the best feeling, just do it right way.
I once loved my job, now I have better job. I once loved my blue t shirt, now I have flashing tees. Things and circumstances changes with time and so will be your preferences.
Don’t think too much, if your love changed for your toy or clothes. Even if stop loving some person, than that is okay. You need to worry only if you go on wrong track and start loving wrong things like drugs, wrong habits.
What were the things you once loved and now you don’t anymore? Did I struck your nostalgic cord?